I cannot imagine how growing up without my biological father had anything to do with my situation now, but I must admit it is quite concerning. Growing up, I heard little about my biological dad. I hardly cared enough to think about it, besides I had a great step-father. I knew for certain that when I had a child, that I was going to be the best father in the world. I wanted to give my child what my stepfather has given me all my life: love and truth. I always admired a man that took care of another man’s child/children, I seen it my whole life. I didn’t know in the future that this very admiration is what propelled me to make a very costly decision in the future. Let me briefly explain!!!